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Been there, done that? Known for its radical inclusivity and off-the-wall creativity, The Stud has been everything from an art space to a drag stage. This postage-stamp-sized, pink-lit cocktail lounge and piano bar features the Hot Boxxx Girls, a long-standing drag show, on Friday and Saturday nights (reservations advised).

Known as the city’s first LGBTQ+ video bar, it’s a cozy space for drag shows, cocktails, and pop music projections that light up the room.

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Wild Side West 

Established in 1962, this historic lesbian-founded bar sits quietly in Bernal Heights with a rustic patio, a rotating crowd of locals, and a legacy of live music and poetry.

Thursday and Friday nights Jolene's kitchen serves satisfying comfort fare with plenty of veggie options.

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At Time Out, all of our travel guides are written by local writers who know their cities inside out. Happy Hour ain't no slouch, either. With a solid dance floor and one of the best patios in the Castro, it’s an easy favorite for weekend drop-ins and daytime drinks alike.

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It’s rough around the edges in the best way possible.

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The Cafe 

Bright, buzzy, and built for mingling, The Cafe is where many locals start their night.

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This guide was written by Bay-Area based writer Clara Hogan.

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Queer artistic expression thrives at Oasis, a club and cabaret theater in SoMa. Live music on Thursday nights is a nice counterpoint to the often wild and unexpected Friday and Saturday night parties that feature everything from lube wrestling to gaymer nights.

Big, meaty men gravitate to this self-styled Bear Bar in SoMa.

Home to the legendary Hot Boxx Girls and DJ Bus Station John’s disco sets, it’s gritty, loud, and fiercely authentic.

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Badlands 

Known for its crowded weekends and massive dance floor, Badlands is a go-to for top-40 pop lovers and night owls alike.

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Thanks for subscribing! The comic, electric show is different each time, with the Queens taking on everything from Disney princesses to pop stars. 

The self-styled "safe space" is stylish and modern, with a large front room with booths, a pool table and plenty of bar seating, and additional tables in an alcove at the back.

And while the skyline and skyline have changed, some things haven’t: the right to dance freely, to gather safely, and to be unapologetically seen. Opened in a former gay bathhouse in 2015 by San Francisco drag legends Heklina and D’Arcy Drollinger, the 8,000-foot space comes alive each weekend with a myriad of amazing performances, including ever-popular interpretations of classic TV shows like Sex and the CityThe Golden Girls and Buffy the Vampire Slayer.

While there are a handful of great queer patios in SF, El Rio's large, light-strung, plant-laden backyard is one of the best, with outdoor ping pong competition and free al fresco oysters on Friday evenings at 5:30pm.

This friendly neighborhood bar is one of the most low-key options in the Castro. Look out for your first newsletter in your inbox soon!

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It’s more than a bar—it’s a return to San Francisco’s wild queer heart.

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El Rio 

Originally a Brazilian leather bar, El Rio evolved into a cornerstone for the city’s lesbian and queer community. SF is known for electing Harvey Milk, the first openly gay elected official in the US, and is still known today for its thriving queer community. 

At the epicentre of it all is San Francisco’s Castro District, full of drag shows, bars and great restaurants, but there’s plenty more to discover throughout SF (and Oakland) if you know where to look.

These ten bars continue to do just that.

The Stud 

A living legend of queer nightlife since 1966, The Stud is back after a pandemic closure, reopening at a new Folsom Street location in 2024. For drag purists, it is Oasis’ weekly Saturday revue, Mother, that really kills. A true neighborhood bar in every sense of the word, the drinks are strong, the patrons are friendly, and the back patio is generous.